What You’ll Discover in Margalis Fjelstad Stop Emotionally Manipulative Relationships
The persecutor/victim/rescuer connection
TREATMENT ISSUES WHEN WORKING WITH A CARETAKER
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Margalis Fjelstad – Stop Emotionally Manipulative Relationships
Help clients get out of emotionally manipulative relationships
Clients can be moved from one location to another-Focus on yourself-Focused
Stop caretakers’ self-Sabotage
Take on the challenge-Learn to overcome negative behaviors and reduce anxiety.
Borderlines and Narcissists create emotional havoc in families. However, they are rarely seen in therapy and do not stay in therapy long enough for the work to be done. These clients come to therapy desperate for answers. They are victims of the borderline or narcissist’s manipulation and control.
Emotional caretakers are often described by self.-sacrificing, self-Enabling, doormats and virtuous altruists to be defeated. Because of their loyalty, endurance and need to please, intense guilt and the ability to take on all the blame and responsibility, they are vulnerable to being drawn into caring for the needs of borderline or narcissists.
You can motivate clients who feel helpless, defeated and demoralized. Help Caretakers move beyond depression and denial to healthy limits setting and self-care-care. Be bold.-These clients will be taught how to defeat their narcissistic and borderline behaviors. This training will show these clients how to improve their self-esteem and move them forward.-Intimacy and confidence
OUTLINE
EMOTIONAL CARETAKERS
Who are the emotional caretakers?
15% of therapy clients are taken care of by caregivers
Are caretakers raised or born?
Both strengths and weaknesses
Symbiotic relationship with the borderline or narcissist
Five types of distortion Caretakers use
Emotional
Thought
Behavioral
A sense of self
Relationships
Five Caretaking Intensity Levels Relationships With the Borderline or Narcissist
Self-Beating
Pathological Altruism
Protesting the colluders
Self-Protectors
Reduced Prices
The Drama Triangle of the Caretaker/Narcissist/Borderline Relationship
Why and how caretakers are drawn to self-You can’t win with your partner
The persecutor/victim/rescuer connection
TREATMENT ISSUES WHEN WORKING WITH A CARETAKER
Why caretakers can benefit from therapy and narcissists and borderlines typically don’t
Ten ways to take care of yourself as a caregiver-Sabotage
These seven rules are not good for relationships:
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External locus of control caretaker issues
Passivity, fear and guilt are the three most common causes of confusion.
These can be a sabotage to therapy and relationships
TREATMENT STRATEGIES
CBT can be used to address the core distortions in caretakers
Why client-centered therapy doesn’t work as well
Dispute the caretaker’s dysfunctional relationship rules
Caretakers should be encouraged to engage in assertive interactions instead of manipulative interactions
Repairing client’s sense of self
Challenge your negative self-Images
Teach the concept independent SELF
Get a clear understanding of “I”
Establish an inner locus to control
Challenge caretaker’s pathological shame and guilt
Teaching empowered communication techniques
Help clients move from the Drama Triangle to become the Caring Triangle
Conscious choice, assertiveness, acceptance of SELF-Responsibility
To move clients faster, use group therapy
OBJECTIVES
Help clients get out of emotionally manipulative relationships.
How to transfer clients from another country-Focused to Self-focused.
Recognize the seven dysfunctional rules caregivers use in relationships and try to neutralize them.
Recognize the causes behind caretaker behavior.
Show how to coach clients to get out of the drama triangle that is enmeshment and narcissism with a borderline person or narcissist.
Examine various methods to stop caretaker’s self-Sabotage
Outline the steps to neutralizing the emotional caretaker’s obsession with the borderline or narcissist.
Communicate with clients how to use awareness and attention to stop being controlled.
Talk about the steps needed to make real changes in families with borderline or narcissists.
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Margalis FjelstadDr. LMFT, has been in clinical practice for over 30 years. She is an expert in teaching therapists and lawyers how to deal with relationships that include a borderline or paranoid person.
She has more than 150 hours of training on personality disorders. Her focus is on clients who are in a relationship or with borderline personalities. These caretaker clients have received over 10,000 hours counseling. She has also led over 1500 hours of group therapy and 140 training workshops. She was a college professor at California State University Sacramento (California) and Regis University Colorado. Her classes included therapeutic techniques and best counseling practices.
Her book and the accompanying workbook are available. Stop Caring for the Borderline or Narcissist: What to Do? This guide outlines steps that can be taken to help caretakers quit participating in the drama of these relationships. She draws on her vast experience dealing with personality disorders. Margalis He is able take clinical concepts and make them tangible in a systematic and useful way. She is able to understand the dysfunctional dynamics of the borderline or narcissist, and can provide clear ways for clients who are caretaker to evade these manipulations and move on.
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