What You’ll Uncover in James Fogarty Emotional Manipulation Understanding Manipulators and Helping Their Victims
- School:
- James Fogarty
- Period:
- 5 Hours 28 Minutes
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Copyright:
- Apr 25, 2014
Description
Behind the Masks of Manipulation
Emotional manipulation penetrates nearly each dysfunction and complicates many lives and relationships. Individuals who use emotional manipulation conceal beneath the masks of affection, concern, dedication, and friendship, whereas utilizing guilt, button-pushing, refined anger, and many forms of covert ploys to maintain their victims in place, getting their victims to do no matter they need. The phrases of Emotional Manipulators have a number of meanings hiding their true and scheming motives. They rigorously maneuver between that superb steadiness of skimpily giving to others however getting a lot extra. They’re masters of getting others to imagine they’re doing all the pieces for them whereas hiding their “what’s in it for me” motives. They rigorously craft each sentence with their very own egocentric wants hidden between every phrase.
This recording is a radical investigation into the assorted forms of emotional manipulation generally related to problems reminiscent of delinquent persona dysfunction, narcissistic persona dysfunction, and borderline persona dysfunction. Though many individuals are wonderful emotional manipulators, they don’t seem to be persona disordered. Nonetheless, analysis finds that emotional manipulation can be utilized by abusers and their victims; intercourse offenders; and even bosses who emotionally manipulate their staff! Moreover, this dynamic is commonly discovered within the residence when kids and grownup-kids emotionally manipulate their dad and mom, or dad and mom emotionally manipulate their kids.
This recording focuses on serving to psychological well being care professionals acknowledge these people and start intervention with their victims to reduce their harmful conduct. You will be taught what drives Emotional Manipulators; the susceptible ideas of their victims; and how Emotional Manipulators frequently manipulate their victims. Most significantly, you will uncover easy methods to assist victims develop coping strategies to minimize the influence of emotional manipulation. On the finish of the recording, you’ll have a deeper understanding of Emotional Manipulators, their victims, and strategies to help these people in disengaging from unhealthy communication.
Handouts
| Handbook – Emotional Manipulation (0.77 MB) | 69 Pages | Accessible after Buy |
Define
DEFINITION OF EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION
- A working definition of emotional manipulation
- A composite of many definitions
- Examples of Emotional Manipulators
TEN TYPES OF EMOTIONAL MANIPULATORS
- The Fixed Sufferer
- The One-Upmanship Professional
- Highly effective Dependents
- The Triangulators
- The Blasters
- The Projectors
- The Misinterpreters
- The Flirts
- The Iron Fist
- The A number of Offender
THE TOOLS OF THE EMOTIONAL MANIPULATOR: WITH DEFINITIONS AND EXAMPLES!
- Guilt is their specialty
- Pretending to be victimized by the sufferer
- Altering the that means of phrases
- Highly effective dependencies
- Entitlement
- Covert badgering
- Hiding behind the masks
- Irritability
- Specialists in triangulation
- Pretending to be sick or suicidal
- Utilizing provocative conduct
- The deceptions of regularly being misunderstood
- How they assault their sufferer’s self-esteem
- Isolate, destroy and benefit from the impact!
- Manipulative disappointment
- How they fake: “No one understands like you do”
- The smoke display screen they make the most of
- How they fake: “I’m your number one fan”
- How they use enticements for desired conduct
THE MAGICAL THOUGHTS OF EMOTIONAL MANIPULATORS
- If I’m pompous, I keep away from disgrace
- If I’m a sufferer, I’ve energy
- If I triangulate, I get revenge
- If I promise love, I get intercourse
- If I blame you, you’ll give me what I need
- If I break you, I personal you
- If I indulge, I’m the popular mother or father
- If I threaten or strain, I encourage
TEN WAYS EMOTIONAL MANIPULATORS TEST FOR VULNERABILITIES TO FIND THEIR VICTIMS
- The pen check
- Grooming—”Attending to know you, attending to know all about you”
- Testing for dependencies
- The shotgun blast
- Sympathetic angle to be taught their sufferer’s historical past
- Categorizing folks
- Check for desperateness—cat and mouse when first attending to know their sufferer
- Deluge the brand new sufferer with each kind of consideration
- Excessive curiosity
- Impressing their sufferer—the check of vanity
THE QUALITIES AND MAGICAL THOUGHTS OF THEIR VICTIMS
- Co-dependent
- In search of love—desperately
- Understand dangerous qualities of manipulators as power
- Caring and loving
- Wish to please/really feel overly accountable
- Unfulfilled wants
- Abuse and/or uncared for in childhood
- Weak
- Passionate
- Proof against falling out of affection
TECHNIQUES TO STOP VICTIMS FROM BEING VICTIMS
- Altering their notion of the Emotional Manipulator
- Modify the notion of a sufferer right into a survivor
- Re-structuring the survivor’s cognitive distortions
- Creating wholesome boundaries between the Emotional Manipulator and the survivor
- Educating survivors to acknowledge their very own vulnerabilities
- Instruct survivors to extra simply acknowledge Emotional Manipulators
School
James Fogarty, ED.D. Associated seminars and merchandise: 1
Dr. James A. Fogarty, ED.D., is a clinician, licensed medical psychologist, licensed college psychologist, nationwide speaker, writer, and has been a working towards psychologist for greater than 30 years. Jim is thought to be an skilled in grief, sophisticated grief, Submit-Traumatic Stress Dysfunction (PTSD), sophisticated PTSD, disaster reactions, trauma and trauma restoration, household battle and abuse, disaster administration, and the medical use of forgiveness.
All through his profession, he has served as a marketing consultant to psychiatric hospitals, peer help teams, group psychotherapy for grief points, and session and coaching to hospices, funeral properties, schooling amenities, and hospitals. Jim is the writer of The Magical Ideas of Grieving Kids and Overindulged Kids,
Professionals throughout the nation rave about Jim’s complete, sensible and related insights on grief and trauma, all delivered with a dynamic, participating type and a mix of Irish wit. He’s in non-public observe, owns and operates Fogarty Consulting Agency, which is devoted to serving to kids and households with grief and bereavement.
Speaker Disclosures:
Monetary: James Fogarty is president of Fogarty Consulting Agency. He receives a talking honorarium from PESI, Inc.
Non-monetary: James Fogarty has no related non-monetary relationship to reveal.
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